Weniger Bildschirm, mehr Kreativität

Eines der am häufigsten diskutierten Themen ist, wie Kinder von Bildschirmen ferngehalten werden können. Wenn Sie eine Hauptstraße entlanggehen, sehen wir sowohl Erwachsene als auch Kinder, die auf ihre Telefonbildschirme blicken und sich nicht bewusst sind, was um sie herum passiert. Beim morgendlichen Aufwachen greifen 65% der Erwachsenen unter 34 Jahren nach einem Jahrzehnt der digitalen Abhängigkeit beim Aufwachen zum Telefon. Selbst in einem Restaurant bemerken Sie, dass die meisten Menschen eher mit ihren Handys oder Tablets beschäftigt sind, als sich gegenseitig zu unterhalten. Die Kommunikation hat sich definitiv verändert und wir sind von der Technologie abhängig geworden.

Es ist leicht zu verstehen, Telefone sind die gründlichste Enzyklopädie des Lebens und werden ständig aktualisiert. Bedauern Sie jemals die Zeit, die Sie gerade mit Scrollen verbracht haben? Während es einen Teil von uns einbezieht, manipuliert es uns auch, zu denken, dass es wichtiger ist als alles andere. Handys und Software wurden mit Absicht entwickelt, um uns süchtig zu machen.

Zum Glück wachen einige Technologen auf und vergleichen es mit den Auswirkungen der Zigarettenindustrie in den 1930er Jahren, die als gut für uns eingestuft wurden, aber am Ende krebserregend waren. Schauen Sie sich die erstaunlichen Leute bei Humane Tech an und helfen Sie auf jede erdenkliche Weise, das, was sie als Herabstufung von Menschen bezeichnen, umzukehren.

Wussten Sie, dass laut ofcom 79% der Kinder im Alter von 5 bis 7 Jahren 9 Stunden pro Woche online sind ?! Sicher, wir können die Anziehungskraft von Bildschirmen als Schnuller nicht leugnen. Es gibt Zeiten, in denen wir unsere Kinder ruhig halten müssen und ein Bildschirm wirklich gut funktioniert. Aber wir haben es ohne sie geschafft, erinnern Sie sich, als wir Kinder waren?

Wir bei Little Citizens sind der Meinung, dass es an uns Eltern liegt, kreativ an der Lösung unserer Probleme mit den Eltern zu arbeiten und die Verbundenheit zu fördern. Die Belohnungen sind immens. Fordern Sie sich einfach heraus, mit einem Wutanfall ohne Bildschirme umzugehen. Es ist wahrscheinlich, dass Kinder wenige Minuten nach dem Schlimmsten etwas entdecken, das Interesse an ihnen weckt. Ich liebe es, meine Tochter gehen zu sehen, von Weinen, ich bin booooorrrreeeed, zu weeee, das ist so lustig.

Wir müssen dazu beitragen, die Fantasie unserer Kinder zu wecken. Dies ist nicht nur zum Spaß, sondern auch für ihre Entwicklung von großer Bedeutung, da wir die Kommunikation fördern, soziale Fähigkeiten entwickeln und spielerisch lernen.

Elternschaft ist nicht einfach, aber wenn wir Zeit sparen, können wir unseren Kindern helfen, durch Diskussionen, Projekte, Zeichnen von Bildern, Erstellen von Kunst, Klettern, Tanzen und Sport zu lernen.

Im Folgenden finden Sie einige gute Ideen von Little Citizens, mit denen Sie offline gehen und Spaß haben können:

1. Mach etwas zusammen— Statt auf Youtube immer, etwas Neues zu lernen, wie wie mit Wolle mit unserem dynamischen weben Weaving with Wool set by Dejco

2. Cuddle up and share your day— Screens before bedtime lead to disrupted sleep, so why not disconnect from the screen and reconnect with your child and help them sleep well by reading a book together or cuddling with a cute Coin Coin Comete Duck

3. Build a tower— Drop the device, enjoy some play time and engage your child’s imagination at the same time by building a fort with our Noook Get Creative Kit

4. Cook something together— Spark some creativity in the kitchen, get baking using our Moulin Roty I am Baking Set


5. Teach what goes on behind the screen— Go techno without a screen with kits such as the Electro Dough Kit and Mover Kit

So create some new memories with some of our play ideas. Your child will remember these moments for ever.

We’re not saying the balance is easy because it’s not but an honest conversation with ourselves and each other is a great first step. Young Minds have released a series of strategies to help begin the conversation. Tell us how the screen challenges or helps you at home, have you come up with a system that works for you? We would love to hear from you. So please share with us in the comment section below.

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When is Smacking your Child okay?

Is it okay to hit your children? It’s amazing what I thought was a dead certain capital NO, is not 100% true in the UK. One of the last countries in Europe where it is legal to smack your child as reasonable punishment.

The debate here is less about the smack and more about the force exerted. To contextualise most adults remember being physically hurt in school by their teachers. It wasn’t until 1999 that Engalnd banned punishment in the independent school sector. (Americans insert shock emoji face here)

And there were appeals. The heads of a number of Christian fellowship independent schools appealed, at length, through various courts, for the ability of teachers to have delegated authority from parents to physically punish their children should they wish. (Americans insert shock emoji face here)

A BBC report from 2005 says the heads claimed that boys would be hit using “a thin, broad flat paddle to both buttocks simultaneously in a firm controlled manner”. Meanwhile, “girls could be strapped on the hand and then comforted by a member of staff and encouraged to pray”. As a foreigner in the UK that surprised me quite a bit. So now I hear parents can legal smack their kids as long as it’s not too hard. But who decides what hard is?

It’s not just tabloid newspapers like The Sun that say some people do not know what a reasonable punishment is. It’s also often the voice heard in parliament, that if we ban smacking we run the chances of living in a nanny state where we’re telling parents how to be. Things such as age and weight of the child must be taken into account with the amount of force that is being exerted.

The good news is that the subject is in the headlines again, Wales is first in line in an effort to ban smacking altogether.

Scotland is becoming the first country in the UK to ban all physical punishments on children. The new bill was set forward by John Finnie, Green MSP and Scottish government has confirmed that the proposal is now becoming a law. A vote will be held later this year, however, the bill is expected to be passed and become part of Scottish law.

Psychologists around the world say that smacking children can impact their mental health and encourage violent behaviour. Parent’s and carers are legally allowed to smack children lightly if it can be “reasonable punishment”, according to Children Act 2004. In many countries such as Sweden, Ireland, Spain, Germany, and Portugal have placed a ban on smacking children.

However, what will be the criminal offence or punishment set to parents who do smack their child?

Sweden in 1979, became the first country to ban any sort of physical punishment towards a child. This was the first step to making smacking illegal internationally. Today Albania, Andorra, Argentina, Aruba, Austria, Benin, Bolivia, Brazil, Bulgaria, Cape Verde, Congo, Costa Rica, Croatia, Curaçao, Cyprus, Denmark, Estonia, Faroe Islands, Finland, Germany, Greece, Greenland, Honduras, Hungary, Iceland, Ireland, Israel, Kenya, Latvia, Liechtenstein, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Malta, Mongolia, Montenegro, Netherlands, New Zealand, Nicaragua, Norway, Paraguay, Peru, Pitcairn Islands, Poland, Portugal, Moldova, Romania, San Marino, Slovenia, South Sudan, Spain, St. Maarten, Svalbard and Jan Mayen, Sweden, Macedonia, Togo, Tunisia, Turkmenistan, Ukraine, Uruguay, and Venezuela all have bans on smacking children.

In October, 2017 a 25-year-old father was charged for smacking his child on the bottom for breaking a plant pot. The father claims that smacking his child was a reasonable punishment, however due to bruising (bodily harm) the man was sent to court. The father did not enter any pleas.

There are plenty of other ways to discipline your child without having to smack them. An example could be setting simple rules, praising good behaviour, and allow children to have some choice in their on decisions so that they don’t feel controlled.

One of our favourite parenting experts suggest simple tricks, like putting your hand on your child’s shoulder to get their attention and developing great communication skills. Kids want to please their parents so it’s really worth reading and understanding the non-violent communication ideals by the amazing Dr. Laura Markham. Read her Aha Parenting blog here.

The times I have applied her tips have been major breakthroughs in my relationship with my daughter.

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How to help babies with sensitive skin

The trick seems to be to avoid soaps and moisturise. Here is a picture Suzanne Quinn’s twins, Jemima and Ethan. Little Jemima suffers from eczema (see pictures) and she has found the Elave Baby products very beneficial. 

So what’s the deal it seems that more and more baby’s have sensitive skin, is there something in the water? We spoke with Karen Johnston, an Elave Baby safe skincare adviser and she says yes.


Elave is giving away 3 x Packs, valued at £25.65 of Baby Products. Head over to our Facebook page to enter. See competition details below.

Two generations ago, only 3% of babies born developed eczema – today the figure is 25%.  What is going on – is there something in the water?

Medical experts say yes, there literally is, and baby skin is especially vulnerable to the many harsh chemicals to which we expose our skin.

Baby with eczema

As parents, we all want the very best for our children, but it is often difficult to decipher from all the packaging and labelling and marketing whether what we use is safe for delicate baby skin.

Many products are full of nasty synthetic ingredients, these can cause redness, itchiness and discomfort to delicate skin, resulting in red patches, typically on the face, inside of the arms and backs of the knees.

So we wanted to make a recommendation. Because we know how upsetting it can be. We found a product that actually helps and that is news in and of itself. Plus it’s is safe for sensitive babies, even for premature sensitive babies. We asked Karen from Elave Skincare to tell us what is going on.

Baby with eczema

“When skin is dry and damaged, its barrier function is reduced and a flare-up can happen at any time, anywhere on the body.

Common allergens such as animal hair, pollen, preservatives, sulfates, soaps etc in cosmetic products trigger allergic inflammatory action.  Dry skin is also more vulnerable to a bacterium called Staphylococcus aureus.

Currently, there is no cure for eczema.  We don’t have a pill, vaccine, diet or supplementation that works to eradicate it.  However, we do have effective, safe methods which help to control eczema.”

Little Citizens, “So what can you do to protect vulnerable baby skin and prevent a mild attack of eczema becoming much worse?”

Karen Johnston, “A head to toe regime is essential. You can use all the moisturiser in the world, but if you’re shampooing and washing in soap and sulfates, your eczema will continue to wreak havoc.

Never wash with anything that contains soap, which strips the skin of its natural oils.  In normal skin these oils are replaced naturally within 5-6 hours, but in dry skin this may never happen leaving the skin dry and open to triggers.

Moisturise, moisturise, moisturise!  Do it three times daily with a heavy hitting cream with active ingredients like fractionated coconut oil that hydrate the skin barrier and are easy to apply.

Topical steroids have had a bad rap over the years, but dermatologists prescribe them as the primary treatment for eczema which is flared.  They are safe to use, as long as they are prescribed and monitored by medical staff.”

We are proud that Elave Baby products, which are produced in Co Louth, have won Approved By status from TinyLife and we are in our second year of partnership with this very busy charity, which supports premature babies and their families.

Elave babyl donates £1 from every Elave Baby Essentials pack sold to TinyLife to fund research and training programmes. The entire range of Elave Skincare products is available at local pharmacies, or online at elaveskincare.com and Amazon.

Elave Baby’s Ecocert certified natural and organic sensitive skincare range is free from common irritants like soap, sulfates, parabens, alcohol, scents, colours, formaldehyde, lanolin, MIs etc.”

Elave Skincare Prize

Elave Sensitive Skincare have gifted us three of their fabulous Baby Essentials packs to give away to our readers– to be in with a chance of winning one all you have to do is to like and share this post on Facebook with your friends.

****Winners will be announced on 2020 July 1st at midnight.

Made from the finest ingredients, and with the promise of absolute purity, Elave Baby offers gentle, effective protection for sensitive baby skin from birth. The paediatrician and dermatologist approved products are free from sulfates, SLES/SLS, parabens, perfume, formaldehyde, soap, alcohol and more.

The pack, valued at £25.65, contains: Sensitive Baby Bath (400ml), Sensitive Baby Lotion (250ml) and Sensitive Baby Shampoo (400ml) to gently cleanse delicate baby skin from newborn and protect it from dryness and flaking. All products are Ecocert and PETA approved.

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